Wednesday, April 1, 2015

Raise your voice!

Welcome to the winter 2015 issue of our MU Voices blog, with more than 60 entries. You'll read about the boogeyman, a reflection on the power of the pen versus the power of the sword, a Good Friday meditation, crazy collaborative stories from the Paper Hearts Workshop, and verses from the MLK Poetry Writing Day back in January.

In addition, you'll see vivid images from the Galapagos Islands; St. Petersburg, FL; Washington, D.C.; and "Tech Support on Wheels" with the irrepressible Emma Kent and Jeff Fleshner.

Why MU Voices? We believe that all voices should be heard, even voices that may be unpolished or undeveloped, native voices and international voices, voices that may forget articles or mix up prepositions. In this blog, you'll find insight, wit, deep faith, and rampant imagination. Those are the qualities that represent MU Voices authors, photographers, and videographers. These are artists who take a chance.

If you enjoy a written piece or a photo, please add a favorable comment. Writers and other artists need to know they have an audience.

Also start thinking about what you would like to submit to the next issue of MU Voices. Due date isn't until November 13, so you've got plenty of time.

Frances FitzGerald, MU Voices editor

The enigma, by Kevin Finch

Listen to Kevin Finch's poetry on the mystery of the human experience.

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oP6W5jLwF2M&feature=youtu.be

Eve Walker, by Jim Routhier

It was Aunt Eve who helped cultivate my love of history. “You can’t know where you are going if you don’t know where you came from,” Eve would always say to me when I was a child. “That’s true for people and for countries.”

She lived in Colorado, with my uncle and two cousins, but visited several times a year. At least once every visit, Eve would find an opportunity to remind me of that basic truth. My father’s eldest sister, she was nearly forty years old and an accomplished woman by the time I was born.

My earliest memories of Eve are of me sitting enraptured while she recounted her adventures in the WAVES during the Second World War. She had enlisted in the summer of 1941. Eighteen and a high school graduate, she was ready to escape the small Upper-Peninsula fishing and logging village of Brimley, Michigan. The peacetime draft was on, and eventually one of her brothers would be drafted and sent to the Pacific in the War. However, as Eve would proudly remind everyone, she was the first to enter military service, and she had volunteered.

In September 1941, after completing her training in Illinois, she found herself assigned to the secretarial staff at the San Francisco Navy Yard. She was still working at that assignment when the Japanese attack on Pearl Harbor took place. In the days following the attack, she and the other secretaries were pressed into special service and assisted in the processing of the paperwork related to those killed and wounded in the attack.

Decades later, Eve’s eyes would still mist over when she would recall how they worked in a large officespace with twenty-five typists in five rows of five each. These twenty-five women manually typed reports, medical records and notifications to family members. For several weeks, the paperwork came almost non-stop. As soon as one stack of files was completed, another stack was delivered. The typing went on and on, filling the room with the steady clack, clack, clack of manual typewriter keys. Eve always described  the clattering of the typewriter keys as “a cacophony of sound.”. Loud enough to fill the room, but not quite loud enough to cover-up the sobs of those fellow secretaries who occasionally became overcome with exhaustion at the volume of work or from the grief of reading reports of those sailors who had been burned, mangled or drowned in the attack. Sobbing and overcome with grief, these secretaries would be escorted from the area by another WAVE or a sailor. Sometimes they came back, and other times someone new would shortly appear and take their place. The work never stopped.

Following her assignment in San Francisco, she was sent to the Seattle Navy Yard. It was there where she met a young Okie sailor named Bob Walker. “From an early age,” Eve would tell us, “your uncle knew he wanted to be one thing, and only one thing, a cattle rancher. We came up with a plan while we were in the Navy, and after we married and were discharged from the Navy, we put the plan into action.”

Upon their return to civilian life, Eve and Bob took their combined mustering-out pay, a total of $2,500, and invested in a used car dealership. This was the first step in the plan. American car companies were still set up to manufacture military vehicles and aircraft. My aunt and uncle had figured that returning soldiers and sailors would be coming home with their mustering-out pay in their pockets. If they were looking to buy a car, with the car companies needing time to retool and convert back to civilian auto production, used cars would be in demand. The idea paid off.

By the time the auto companies completed their retooling in early 1947, Eve and Bob had already sold their investment for a handsome profit. Their next investment was in Texas oilfields and Hollywood motion picture production. Each investment was made with the same goal in mind, cattle ranching. By the time of their deaths in 2001 and 2010, respectively, their plan of short investments quickly turned over for a profit had paid off. They had built a cattle ranching business that, at its apex, consisted of twelve ranches in three states. A favorite picture of mine is one of Eve at Turkey Creek Ranch, sitting on her favorite horse, “Lil’ Big Enough.” In the picture, she is wearing leather riding chaps over her jeans and a leather vest over a white blouse.  Her black hair is pulled back tightly, and a Stetson sits atop her head. The caption on the back of the picture reads:

 1964 – Eve riding Lil’ Big Enough. Turkey Creek Ranch. 1st Cattle Drive. She said she’d never do it.

The writing is Uncle Bob’s and the picture was proof that, despite her prediction otherwise, here she sat just prior to her first drive.

By the time I was born, Eve Walker was already a wealthy woman. Yet despite her increasing wealth, she never forgot her humble beginning.

“You know we were raised in a home with dirt floors,” she would begin any discussion of family history with that reminder. By “we,” she meant her parents and siblings, including my father. As much as my father avoided discussing his childhood, my aunt embraced every opportunity to discuss hers.

The small home they lived in is still standing in Brimley, although it now has floors and indoor plumbing. Even now it’s difficult to imagine a family of seven living in the small dwelling. Based on pictures taken during the era, the home resembled a tarpaper shack straight from the Depression-era South. Despite being in northern Michigan, the structure was only marginally insulated against the cold and was not livable year-round. There was no indoor plumbing. Water was provided by a well on the property and stored in a rain barrel just outside the back door. The outhouse, behind their home, served as the toilet facilities. Eve’s eyes would sparkle with delight whenever she would tell the story of the time she and her sister were tasked to give their brother, my then eight-year-old father, a bath. Not being particularly motivated to complete the chore, they thought to save time by simply bathing their little brother in the cold water of the rain barrel. The result was a half-drowned, half-frozen eight-year-old boy, a barrel of well water that was now sudsy and had to be emptied, and one angry mother.

Grandpa was a commercial fisherman in the non-winter months, and during the winter worked at one of the area logging camps. Once winter started to set in, the house would be closed up for the winter and the family relocated to the logging camp where Grandpa worked. During this time, Grandma worked as the cook for the same logging camp, while continuing to raise the children. Often this meant that Eve, my father, and their siblings would assist with the cooking and cleaning chores at the camp. Once you were old enough, everybody worked.

Overcoming this difficult beginning, Eve was immensely proud of our family history, particularly the history of Judge Sir Adolphe-Basile Routhier. Judge Routhier was a Quebecois jurist who rose to the position of chief justice of the Quebec Supreme Court. In 1880, he wrote the original French lyrics to the Canadian national anthem, “O’Canada.” Eve would describe Judge Routhier as “the Francis Scott Key of Canada.” It is because of her and her love of family history that I would eventually trace my family line back to France in the late 1500s.

As much as Eve was a positive impact on my childhood and helped nurture within me a love of history, she was not without her prejudices and foibles. I was in my early teens when I first realized that Eve had issues with race. Like other aspects of her life, even her prejudices were complicated. She would at times declare her support for Civil Rights legislation, but openly supported keeping the armed services segregated. In Eve’s mind, separate but equal was perfectly acceptable, provided both sides were truly equal.

“What’s wrong with everyone staying with their own kind?” she would ask whenever the topic of segregation came up. Her politics were no less complicated. She was a registered Republican but considered Frankin Delano Roosevelt to be one of the greatest presidents in US history. “Only FDR could have gotten us through the Depression and the War,” she would often say.

While a lifelong supporter of FDR, Eve was just as rabid an anti-Communist. She was a long-time member of the John Birch Society and was convinced that just about every one of America’s problems was the result of Communist infiltration. She would endorse Civil Rights legislation one time, and the next would declare it government overreach. In her world, it made perfect sense that while Civil Rights legislation was overreach on the part of the government, Senator McCarthy and the House Committee on Un-American Activities was not.

Eve’s sense of history was no less complicated. As much as she would mock those who believed the moon landing to be a hoax,  she would openly scoff at the Warren Commission’s finding that Lee Harvey Oswald acted alone in assassinating John F. Kennedy. She refused to believe that Oswald was capable of carrying out the shooting, and was convinced that a conspiracy had existed between the CIA and the Soviet government. She claimed that this conspiracy was responsible for Kennedy’s death. In 1975, Appointment in Dallas by Hugh McDonald was published. In this book, McDonald raised those same allegations. In Eve’s mind, this confirmed what she had been saying, and she would live the remainder of her life, convinced that Oswald had been a patsy and Kennedy the victim of an international conspiracy.

Both Eve and her husband were avid hunters, and they owned a large number of hunting weapons. At Eve’s insistence, an air- and water-proof case was constructed for each weapon. Eve was convinced the government would be confiscating weapons, and she was determined to hide their weapons away rather than permit them to be taken from them.

Eve died in 2010, but it had been several years prior to that when I last saw her. She had become too ill to take the flight from Colorado to Michigan, and my being in the Army made it difficult to visit Colorado. After her death, Gary, her oldest son, explained that as her body began to fail her, her mental faculties remained. She remained involved in the day-to-day operations of the cattle company until her failing health forced to her retire. Even in retirement, she continued a reduced workload from home, becoming proficient in telecommuting.

Whether fighting in the war, creating a successful business or raising her family, Eve served as a role model for those who knew her. Someone who demonstrates what hard work, inspiration, and luck can accomplish. She continues to influence my life to the present. The dichotomy that was her life illustrates for me that people are never as simple as all good or bad. Each of us possesses the ability for both. It’s what we do with the opportunities we are given, the challenges that we encounter, and the limitiations we impose on ourtselves that matter.

Self improvement: A good strategy to live your life, by Viviana Garabello

Just a few days ago, a new year started: Happy 2015, with fireworks and cheers! All around the globe, people celebrate New Year’s Eve. Combined with it, some people seize the opportunity to make a sort of review of the previous year, fixing new targets for the coming one. They want to find more time for themselves, or they want to go to the gym and take care of their physical shape. Others may want to read more, to spend more time playing with their children, to learn how to swim, or to recover the old guitar, abandoned for so long. Certainly, it is nice to focus, at least once a year, on how to improve ourselves and our lives, because becoming a better person is the best gift we can give ourselves and the community.

I try to improve myself continuously, to the point that it is my psychological motivator every day. The New Year’s Eve procedure is, for me, a periodic and frequent system to check out my level of happiness and satisfaction. I ask myself what I can do to adjust my life when things are not going as I wish. It is like being the captain on the boat of my life, having the helm in my hands, and feeling I can control and guide it to the desired direction. There are some key questions helping to start this process: “Am I happy?” “What makes me happy?” “What I would like to have/to do with my  relationship/ career/ spirituality/ health and wellness?” “How can I achieve my dreams?” and so on. I try to answer clearly and honestly, to arrive at the most realistic and concrete action plan possible.

Probably this approach, which strongly determines how I live my life, is due to my past professional training in the quality system management. I was trained to find the issue, identify the root cause of it, draw plans to eradicate the problem, and extend the solution for future prevention of reccurrence. Also, when a problem is not there, still I used to work on improving an already good situation. I have adopted this philosophy in my real life, even excessively. In fact, I am a perfectionist, and I have suffered because of this. I get too stressed and unable anymore to release my boat’s helm, feeling guilty if I did not put 100% of myself in my duties, feeling anxious if I cannot not keep everything under control.

In fact, the negative side of self-help is about not being experts in psychology or fitness, neither dietetics or any of the fields in which we decide to improve. Consequently, even if we have a good purpose, there is the risk of falling and ending up doing worse than when we started. To do a good job with fitness, for example, it would be wiser to find a professional trainer, somebody who knows the matter and can really help us. However, there is the risk of finding the wrong person. A lot of counselors, or “gurus,” make money on the self-help business. They write books about self-learning, self-development, and some of them promote what is called “magical thinking” or the “law of attraction,” about how to become rich and to shape our lives as we desire. I am not against this kind of book, which can be positive  if authors are able to write good arguments, based on building motivation and being a real help and inspiration for some people. On the other hand, a psychologically weak person could be influenced too strongly by these messages, and could risk losing his or her critical-thinking skills. In extreme cases, he/she might stick to a sort of religious addiction to the “master,” entering some strange and exclusive groups of people, and adopt peculiar roles that sometimes the members are obliged to follow.

Despite these kind of risks, at the base of healthy self-development is an important capability that distinguishes between losing or finding yourself. This is what I define the “level of consciousness.” In other words, it is the compass, fundamental for the captain to know where to drive the boat. The more we can see ourselves objectively, the more we will be able to evaluate our situation from a different perspective and keep close track of where our life is going. Basically, everybody could practice self-help; just make sure not to fall into self-damage. Self-improvement can be a little or a lot, depending on how conscious the person is and how comfortable he/she feels about taking charge. Actually, there is an entire branch of psychology, the humanistic approach, based on the concept that humankind has a natural tendency towards continuous improvement as a part of our evolution process.

Unfortunately, some other people just passively experience events in life, believing in the concept of a predetermined destiny. They think they cannot do anything to be active and influence reality with their actions. I definitely believe the opposite, because I have been practicing and applying self-improvement for many years, and I have reached many great results in any aspect of my life that I wanted to improve. I am finally able to see the huge difference between waiting for life to happen or actively buiding my future day by day with my own hands. In this way, everybody can become a creative creature and try to shape conditions. Small successes, well focused in a determined direction, will definitely create the condition for “the boat” to navigate the right course, where the path has been prepared.

I agree with those books when they say you can achieve whatever you want if you just believe in yourself. I had chance in my life to verify it. Even if it is not easy, even if your own excuses and fears are the greatest enemies of this challenging and exciting process of change and maturation, you need to face your weaknesses to become stronger. Hence, when you start overcoming the first barriers, you also start demonstrating to yourself that you can do many new things that you could not imagine. Now is when you reinforce your belief in yourself and your capabilities, starting an effective positive circle of first action—good results – reinforcing mechanism - stronger belief - next action, and so on.

Finally, I am convinced self improvement is a good strategy to adopt in life, because it is good to become a better person. It is also the only way we have to really give a contribution that is not casual or passive. It is the only chance we have to realize our dreams, giving them a real form, and to express ourselves, feeling we are the protagonist of the precious time we have been gifted to live. Furthermore, it is a way to be thankful for all the qualities and capabilities we have received, putting them into practice and honoring them every day, doing the best we can. And my suggestion is: Make sure you have a very good dream because once you achieve it, you will see it was not so difficult, and you will feel very happy. Otherwise, it means it was the wrong dream, and you will need to restart a new improvement process.

Tuesday, March 31, 2015

Why music education should be widely promoted, by Viviana Garabello

Most music educators would agree the richness of musical experience justifies itself (Cesarone, 1999). Also, 95% of parents agree music produces benefits not found in other classrooms (Hallam, 2012). Finally, students are the greatest testimony of music’s positive effect, as reported by researchers who examined 1,155 written responses from a survey of American middle and high school students (Hodges, Luehrsen, 2010). Through this research, conducted in 2007, the students clearly expressed feelings of musical involvement, emotional benefits, life benefits, social benefits, and they believe music attendance is a curriculum-important contribution (Hodges, Luehrsen, 2010).

The reason music receives a large consensus and is so unique in educational benefits is because of its interdisciplinary nature. It provides a perfect balance between science and art, developing the particular connection between rationality and creativity, showing common elements with mathematics, psychology, physics, history, medicine, biology, religion, electronics, education, business, language and so on. Music education is also a powerful tool for peace, because music is everywhere, and it is universal. In fact, as Zoller (1991) stated, music “often surpass[es] physical, cultural, intellectual, and emotional limitations," removes barriers and becomes the most effective alternative form of communication (McCarthy, 2008).

On the other hand, music is not just pleasure and fun. When a student approaches an instrument or studies music theory, he/she needs to be aware of the high level of commitment required to become a sufficiently good performer. Music knowledge is vast, and each instrument has its own world in terms of the technique required to perform even the first easy song. Learning music requires a lot of work, dedication, continuity, and patience, especially during the first stages, but also in the highest levels, with continuous improvement and research for perfection. Based on research conducted at the University of Florida in 2008 on 2,500 randomly selected students, 88% felt overwhelmed by all they had to do; 25% said stress interfered with academic performance, and 66% felt very sad (Emerson, 2008). Consequently, when considering teaching children to start playing an instrument, parents should evaluate how music can heavily impact students with additional work because of the number of necessary hours to practice properly.

Also, in the natural process of comparison between peers, a frequent misconception about innate musical talent risks provoking a sense of inferiority and low self-esteem. Parents and educators should promote the message that the real focus is not to be the number one, or to be the new Mozart of our times. Instead, it is about the privilege of receiving an education that is aligned with the modern perspective of essential contribution to all children’s human development (Scrip, Ulibarri, Flax, 2013).

Music education should be considered essential in the education of everyone for many reasons, and most of them have been scientifically confirmed. For example, young children who listen to music regularly demonstrate better development than average, as proved by an investigation about the “Mozart effect” in kindergarten. The result showed significant statistical differences in social, cognitive, and physical development in favor of the children exposed to music (Mattar, 2013).  Another study, focused on children affected by poverty, living in a dangerous neighborhood of Los Angeles, showed how neural functioning can gradually improve when underprivileged children get involved in music lessons. Chronic stress is reduced and proper brain development is reinforced (“Grades K-8,” 2014).

An entirely new field of neuromusic research has been developed recently to study the brain processes involved with the musical experience. Brain imaging devices have showed brain activity during music listening and music performance. An impressive level of parallel neuronal activity in different brain areas have been recorded, and significant differences in comparison to non-musically trained subjects are evident (Edwards, 2008). In particular, many studies have focused on the response of the brain to music in different aspects, such as memory, language, mood, and health.

With the purpose of studying the effect of alpha-brain-waves music on memory in middle school students, a team from the Shanxi Medical University in Tayiuan, China, exposed 99 students to classical and baroque music for five days, asking them to perform a standard test of short-term and long-term memory before and after the experiment. As a result, an improvement in both the visual and aural memory was visible, especially with baroque music, and especially on the long-term memory (Li, An, Cui, Jing, & Lu, 2012).

But, as music can sometimes excite and sometimes relax, the same happens in relation with memory. In fact, relaxing music can counter the association between traumatic memories provoked by arousal experiences, as shown in an experiment conducted in New York in 2012. During a slideshow presentation, 84 participants listened to either an emotional or neutral narration, and were exposed to relaxing or no music. Retention tested one week later showed how the recall of the emotional story was significantly reduced for people exposed to relaxing music. This finding offers evidence about how music can be a valid support for therapeutic purposes, as a treatment for damage due to traumatic experiences (Rickard, Wong, & Velik, 2012).

As is well known, a pathologic lack of memory is the most evident symptom of Alzheimer’s disease. At the Mercer Institute for Research on Ageing, in collaboration with the Trinity College Institute for Neuroscience and Department of Psychology, in Dublin, Ireland, a research team investigated the enhancing effect of music on autobiographical memory recall in mild Alzheimer’s disease individuals. Considerable improvement was found during the autobiographical memory recall in patients exposed to the Vivaldi’s “Spring” movement from the Four Seasons, compared to the ones in silence. Also, it was noticed that there was a significant reduction in the level of anxiety (Irish, Cunningham, Walsh, Coakley, Lawlor, Robertson, & Coen, 2006).

This is particularly significant because many studies confirm the positive effects of music on mood. In fact, the five basic elements of music—rhythm rhythm, pitch, melody, harmony, intervals—impact some physiological and psychological functions. Alterations in mood have been noticed as consequence of the musical involvement of the limbic system, the part of the brain related to emotions, feelings, and sensations. The autonomic nervous system and the body’s immune system are influenced by music, releasing hormones such as dopamine, betaendorphins, and enkephalins. Those are responsible for the positive emotions of tranquillity and relaxation. In ancient times, music was considered one of the essential, powerful tools for healing, health and wellness. In recent times, it has been associated with non-pharmacological treatments, it is considered a good instrument for stress release, and it is recommended for stimulation and enjoyment during physical activities and pleasurable distractions (Murrock, 2005).

Music therapy for mood disorders has been also widely described by Kenneth E. Bruscia (2012).  Bruscia shows that music can help adults in psychotherapy. He described the positive effects of music for a woman with acute psychiatric problems, a woman affected by bipolar disorder, a musician with dysthymic disorder, couple therapy, depression, and suicide tendency (Bruscia Kenneth, 2012).

Another of the most investigated benefits of music is its correlation with the language. In fact, even if, basically, the brain areas are different for the two functions, magnetic resonance imaging (MRI) studies have identified multiple cortical regions that are involved in both. In particular, 11 pairs of overlapping clusters, from semantic and music perception, were found in cognition-emotion loop. Also, a significant interaction between the right and left hemisphere has been viewed, as a result of the presence of rational and irrational components of music (Lai, Xu, Song, & Liu, 2014).

This correlation certainly supports the value of music in autism spectrum disorder (ASD), as described by Hayoung Lim (2012). Lim presents, through evidence-based practices and protocol methods, results related to the effectiveness of music to support the development of speech and language skills in children affected by ASD and other learning disabilities (Rivera, 2011).

In the form of education, instead of therapy, music is focused to effectively help not only pathologic subjects, but everyone, for example, in learning a foreign language. Usually, classroom programs do not provide sufficient exposure time for students to achieve an intermediate level of knowledge and fluency in a foreign language. During a case study of Russian language learning, it was found much more effective to expose the students to 700 songs by Vysotsky, with the aim of introducing language forms, pronunciation, cultural idioms and contrast, historical-political aspects, social customs, and literary works and characters. This most effective teaching strategy has been shown to improve memory, cognitive processes, compensation, affective and social skills in most of the students (Jones, 2008).

Actually, music seems to be generally correlated to academic success, too. Even if  music professor Richard Strauch conducted his research on only one class of students, his results demonstrated those who regularly attended music classes during high school had higher GPAs and performed better scores on the standardized tests, compared to the general freshmen not exposed to music. Also, a continued involvement in music was linked with consistently higher-than-average grades (Olson, 2009). To reinforce Professor Strauch’s analysis, there is a correlation factor between people graduating with a music major and a significant coefficient of academic success. This was found with the crossed analysis of the American College Tests (ACT), Minnesota Scholastic Aptitude Test (MSAT), Triggs Reading Survey, High School Rank (HSR), Cumulative College Honor Point Ratio (HPR), and Honor Point in Music Courses (MHP) (Ernest, 1970).

Other data from the elementary schools report students involved in instrumental music programs scored 19% higher in English and 17% in mathematics, compared to peers with no music program. The students involved in a choral group performed 32% higher in English and 33% higher in mathematics in contrast to children in schools without a music program, as stated by Christopher Johnson (2007). Supporting this concept, Dr. Laurel Trainor (2006), professor of psychology, neuroscience, and behavior at McMaster University, said:

Young children who take music lessons show different brain development and improved memory over the course of a year, compared to children who do not receive musical training. Musically trained children performed better in a memory test that is correlated with general intelligence skills such as literacy, verbal memory, visiospatial processing, mathematics, and IQ.

Furthermore:

The musician is constantly adjusting decisions on tempo, tone, style, rhythm, phrasing, and feeling – training the brain to become incredibly good at organizing and conducting numerous activities at once. Dedicated practice of this orchestration can have a great payoff for lifelong attention skills, intelligence, and an ability for self-knowledge and expression (“Save the music.org,” 2015).

In addition, music education is not only positive for children and teenagers, but it is a lifespan tool for stress release, inner cultivation, and social life development at any age. The participation in music can be a rewarding and enjoyable experience for people of all ages, and can bridge the gap between generations. Researchers have examined the effects of intergenerational music groups on cross-age attitudes and interactions. During these studies, children and older adults have been involved in singing and playing instruments. In their interactions, behaviors such as smiles, touches, eye contact, encouragment, assistance, and conversation initiation have been observed. Finally, a significant difference was found in all the behaviors through music interactions, and particularly through singing, which was more effective than the instrument playing. In addition to this, children were asked to express a negative or positive association with the physical aspects of the oldest people. Even at the beginning of the test, they expressed 88% positive and 12% negative feelings. After three weeks of music interactions, they no longer identified any negative physical characteristics of the older adult participants (Belgrave, 2011).

Adult music education is equally as important as child education. Unfortunately, statistical studies conducted in 30 different cities in the U.S. showed the adult training was principally focused on technical and industrial needs. Yet, adults have demonstrated a high interest in musical activities, music club participation, and music appreciation both as listeners and as players in vocal or instrumental groups (Gerkowsky, 1965). Today adults are aware of the importance of music education. More than 70% said being involved in music helped them in their daily working task management in terms of better attitude about team building, problem solving, and successful target achievements (“New poll on music education,” 2015).

The mature sense of self-understanding, self-esteem, and self-knowledge in adults allows them to have a larger appreciation for the benefits of music education. In a study conducted in 2006, across 24 states in the U.S. , adult piano players expressed and prioritized the following benefits of music: dream fulfillment, technique, sense of accomplishment, escape from routine, skill improvement, musicianship, musical knowledge, play and fun, skill refinement, and personal growth (Jutras, 2006). Certainly, for the typical method of learning piano in a solitary context, less importance was given to the social benefits, which is instead much stronger for musicians and singers involved in bands, orchestras, chorals, and other group performances (Jutras, 2009).

In their parental function, adults should also remember how important their influence is in the family context. The family is the nucleus for developing the first musical attitude, and for sharing the enjoyment of music with other family members. A basic music education allows children to gain the necessary tools to practice how to have fun together and stay connected authentically, in a contemporary world in which time is missing and most connections are virtual. In a recent study, five families were observed in their daily musical life, and the impact on each other in their attitude about music was evident. Both adults and children were interviewed about the experience, and the result was those families were very active and involved, singing together, playing instruments, listening to music, and also writing their own songs with words reflecting their family values (Gingras, 2014).

Music education is the answer to the most traditional learning practice, through history, theory knowledge, and performance. But it also includes the most innovative teaching methods, which are open to creativity and to interdisciplinary interactions and research. Music moves to experiment, and proposes both individual and collective opportunities. It is for ambitious virtuosistic performers, and it is for beginners who share music at family holidays.

Music is for every language, and even beyond the language. It can relax or excite. It can be difficult, but it can heal. Music is for everybody, to be learned and to be freely expressed at any age, for any ethnicity, in any geographical place in the world, in any forms and rhythm. Music is art and it is science. It is something and its opposite, at the same time.

Educating to music is such an powerful way to communicate with everybody in his/her own way. It easily creates connections and provides solutions to every kind of need. It makes people active and friendly, it helps people understand each other, and it builds relationships between diverse groups. It also helps one to be alone and to build a self-relationship.

Music is an entire world and serves the world. It is always available, and it is a loyable, enjoyable, and omnipresent companion in life. People will always find a song that exactly responds or describes the situation or mood they feel, because the nature of music is universal, made by humans for humans. The fascinating aspect of the humankind, despite always lacerated by wars and conflicts, is that people are incredibly similar to each other in the deepest heart, and music is the perfect testimony of the human potential powerful link for peace and love.

Scientific research is needed to define the truth, with evidence and proof, about reasons that music education should be widely promoted. Thousands of researches could be conducted, and thousands reasons could be find to support how positive music education is for everybody. But music is so infinite, vaste, and powerful that it just promotes itself, as humans discovered many centuries ago.

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Moving on, by Verley Lazuli

21 June 1882

I was accused of being a witch again in the village that has been home for the past few weeks. It becomes wearisome after a while, continually having to pack up and move on because a scraggle of idiots can’t tell the difference between a cup of tea and a magic potion. Each time this happens, I find myself tempted to ask what makes them think, if I did have supernatural abilities, I would waste them on such trivial endeavors as unsettling the cows or making the babes colicky. Those are the pastimes of faeries, anyway. Yet I know better than to goad fools. I count myself lucky when they simply ask me to leave – being chased from town by torch-wielding madmen is still too fresh a terror in my memory.

So it is that I find myself celebrating this summer solstice under the stars in a clearing hidden safely within the forest, away from superstitious busybodies. The sky is pitch black, without even a cloud to mar the vivid constellations and cool moonlight. Sitting in the doorway of my cobbled together caravan, I am finally able to enjoy a peaceful cup of strong black tea (made in a kettle, not a cauldron, thank you very much). Absinthe, the impish puppy who joined ranks with me last month after I fed her some scraps, has turned herself into a blanket over my feet. She is an unusual fellow, her unruly brown fur and imposing size making her look rather like a bear cub, while her eyes (as green as the drink for which she is named) seem almost human with their mischievous intellect. At first I was exasperated by her uninvited company, but I have gradually begun to appreciate it. The mechanical horse who pulls my caravan along, although a wonder of science, is not the friendliest of associates.

It is only at times like tonight, in the quiet of the dark woods, that I admit to myself how lonely my nomadic and solitary life can be. When I set out two years ago, captivated by the allure of the open road and eager to leave the drudgery of my hometown behind me, I expected adventures around every turn. That hasn’t quite turned out to be the case. Not that getting chased out of town with torches and pitchforks or befriended by characters stranger than myself aren’t adventures, just…not exactly the sort I had anticipated when my dreams were bigger than my experiences. But who knows, perhaps this summer will change all that. Dreamily I gaze up at the stars, finding a particularly bright one for my solstice wish: An adventure.

 

Monday, March 30, 2015

Picture this, by Tess Wenderski


Strapped in, safe and sound, in my fading blue car seat, the rumbling bump is only a jiggle that makes me giggle. The black and white gate is up, the bright red lights are not flashing. Mom turns around and smiles, her brown eyes crinkling with happiness. She says, “What does the train say?” “Choo-choo!” I reply with all the enthusiasm of a five-year-old.

Walking hand-in-hand with Dad, I see the tracks extend in the distance. The steel rails shine in the setting sun. I can’t see the end but I lean out eagerly, trying to see farther out. Dad grabs my hand and tells me to be careful around trains. We turn around and head back towards town, and my seven-year-old self is suddenly concerned with ice cream, not train tracks.

Independence Day and there is a parade! The red and blue floats wobble as they go over the uneven tracks.  The costumed people on board sway with the motion and wave back to the crowd. Eleven-year-old me fears for them. What if they fall? Don’t they know they have to be careful around trains?

It’s finally summer vacation and I am officially a sophomore in high school. The sun is warm but there is a nice breeze cooling my face. My friends and I start walking towards town, crossing the ever-present train tracks. Looking down, between the rails, I see a glint amongst the stark coal. I bend down and move the rocks aside. There is a white rock surrounded by the black. I grab it. That fact that it remained so clean among all the dirt confuses me. I drop it back down with the coal and we keep walking.  

The middle of fall and the rain is pounding down on my car. I can’t see very far in front of me. Only the taillights of the car in front of me, which suddenly light up. I brake quickly. I can see flashing red lights to the side and up. A bell begins to ring. Rumbling rushes past, accompanied by a clacking. The train moves by without a care, as I sit in my heated car, worrying about being late for school.

The summer, three weeks before college. I’m leaving this small town for months. I’ll be on my own. I walk with my friend along the tracks. I lose my balance and step down. I step back up and continue walking. The setting sun is on our left as we head north. The trees cast shadows and the wind causes them to move and shake.  Not far, just a stroll, really. But the tracks keep going. Where do they end? Where do they begin? A bird flies overhead and keeps going, seeming to follow the tracks. I wish I could go with it.

I am walking through a new town with new friends whom I met in a new school, new ideas to think about, new thoughts to discuss, new memories to share. The old buildings have ended abruptly and train tracks run along to the right and left of where we stand. Different tracks, but still the same. Maybe they connect to the ones back home.

“God, train tracks are everywhere, aren’t they?” my friend says.

“Yeah, I remember this one time when my parents and I went to town during a parade and...”

           

Just a normal day, by Tess Wenderski

Me:
Under the willow tree, hidden away, I sit and think. My thoughts explore every nook and branch of the tree, and I imagine grand escapades surrounding this place. Valiant knights take drastic measures, as fair ladies take part in the battles. Beneath my folded legs, the rocks are cold and hard, and small insects clamber about as though they are mountain climbers. Birds land and quickly depart from the branches, busy building and constructing their nests. Caught up in my own mind, I miss the warning signs, and the buzzing of the hornets is upon me before I even realize it. Unprotected by the slim branches and the narrow leaves, I am attacked by the yellow and black soldiers before my story ends. My mother yells my name, telling me to get inside. I look and see her standing just outside my pretend kingdom with my brother. Standing and running, we all dash inside, fleeing the attackers

Other Child, My Brother:
I look out from among the branches, trying to find the hornets’ nest I stumbled upon yesterday. My sister is playing her silly make-believe game and Mom is gardening by the house. I know it’s around here, facing the street. I nearly pass underneath it when the buzzing alerts me to its presence. Mischievously, I wonder what would happen if I threw a rock at it. My first attempt strikes the tree trunk and I flinch in fearful anticipation. My next throw is braver; after all, they didn’t attack the first time. This rock hits my target, but it only clips the side. Several more hornets buzz out. Before I can lose my arrogant confidence, I throw one more rock and hit the hive dead center. It collapses and all the inhabitants flee their former home. They strike against me and I run from the onslaught. I pass my sister running towards my mom, screaming for help the entire time. Mom stands up and hollers to my sister and me to get inside. She waits for my sister to catch up and we escape the approaching attackers.

Mom:
Some quiet gardening, that’s all I wanted. I wanted half an hour to be able to relax and just let my green thumb do all the work. My two oldest children are off playing and running around like all children do during in the summer, and my youngest is inside taking a nap. The baby monitor is on the grass next to my feet in case he wakes up. The garden is freshly free of weeds, and I’m just beginning to gather up my tools when my son comes sprinting from behind the large willow tree. He is clearly distressed and yelling for help. Behind him, a dark cloud of hornets swarm. My daughter is still under the tree still, oblivious to the danger. I scream her name, trying to get her attention before the hornets attack her. My daughter sees the hornets and scrambles to run for the house. I wait until my daughter is in front of me before following her into the safety of the house.


Response to Invisible Man, by Sr. Agatha Mensah

My Topic
Invisible Man has evoked a variety of feelings and emotions within me. There were many sections that I liked about the book, and there were many sections that I did not like.

My Focus
Author Ralph Ellison chose a very good title for this book, because he describes how difficult it was for a black man to be recognized in white society. My focus is to delve into the title more deeply to unveil what was behind it. In addition, I want to know his central theme for his story.

What I learned from the story
During the time that the writer wrote  his book in 1947, blacks were nobody in this country. Their efforts were not recognized by the whites. I learned from this story that any black person who wanted to be treated the same as any white person had to experience many difficulties. The following quote explains it all: “If it’s Optic White, It’s the Right White” (217). This was because white people felt superior to blacks.

Question 1: How is this reading experience going for you? Briefly explain.
From the very beginning of the novel, the narrator made himself known as an “invisible man.” This statement is repeated many times in his story, because the narrator thought about himself as being invisible due to the racism in the United States when Ellison wrote the book in 1947. His main worry was how people were unable to see and confront the truth. He struggled to gain independence for the black people. In his story, he used the first person narrative, “I am an invisible man” (3). He talked about how he was not ashamed of the fact that his grandparents  were slaves (15). Throughout the book, the narrator was seeking his destiny, and he said, “All my life I had been looking for something, and everywhere I turned someone tried to tell me what it was” (15).

 Ellison uses the “flashback” technique throughout the story (16). The narrator told the story of his grandfather who did not like white people. This bothered the narrator, because he was loved by white people at the beginning and, through them, he was given a scholarship to attend college.  He also referred to Booker T. Washington’s speech, “Cast your bucket where you are” (29) in his own words, because he wanted a friendly relation among all races. The narrator was afraid when he was delivering his speech, because he did not know whether the people would recognize his ability (24). 

The narrator shared all that he went through in life to his readers. He described characters who played a significant role in his life, and those who caused damage to him that, in turn, led to his expulsion from school. The narrator went to New York to seek employment at the factory, which eventually made him very sick. Throughout his life, he had good people to help him, such as Mary Rambo. The narrator stood up to fight for freedom for the black people.

After reading many books written by black people, I could see that many of the authors experienced racism. The invisible man did not experience actual  slavery. However, he experienced the devastating result of generations who have suffered from slavery before it was abolished. The narrator used dialogue when Dr. Blesdsoe was interrogating him on Norton’s issue (137). The narrator was insulted by Dr. Blesdsoe, who said, “You’re nobody, son. You don’t exist—can’t you see that?” He was insulted because he was not supposed to take Mr. Norton to the “Golden day” (138). He was expelled from the school and then went to New York (145). The narrator went through a lot of troubles in his life because of racism; the “N” word appears often in his story.

The lesson I learned from this story was the narrator’s courage to be able to stand against terrible situations, such as the ongoing effect of slavery. For example, he was brave when he was sacked from school. He also cultivated the habit of reading when he read countless books from the library (258). In the story, he regretted going to New York, because he liked to study.  Indeed, the narrator really suffered in the story. Due to his health, the doctor advised him to refrain from work, and this became a big issue for him. However, at long last, he adjusted to the situation. The narrator showed us in his book that we cannot run away from our own shadow; we cannot change how God made us. 

I liked the way the narrator told his story, because experience is the best teacher. He pinpointed all that he went through from the beginning to the end. Life was full of ups and downs for him. For example, Wrestrum accused him by saying “He aims to control the movement uptown. He wants to be a dictator” (401)! The narrator was intelligent in telling his story to his readers by putting in a lot of strategies to win the readers’ attention.

One thing I did not like about the narrator was when he started accusing the whites by saying that the white people “are all against us” (270).  Initially, he was liked by the white people as long as he behaved in a certain way. He liked them because of the scholarship and the brief case. The narrator’s story was full of irony and satire. The author’s presentation was confusing, complex and frustrating. He goes back and forth to present his ideas, which sometimes becomes irritating. The story was very long, with a lot of ideas. I had difficulties focusing on the main idea of the novel.

In summary,  Invisible Man used symbols to convey his message throughout the book. The most important message is that black people were considered to mean absolutely nothing … to be invisible in the eyes of a deeply unjust system, dominated by racism. The narrator ended his story by saying that “The end was in the beginning” (571) to put his readers in a thinking mood. In a nutshell, I will say that the narrator fought the good fight with all his might.

Works Cited

Ellison, Ralph. Invisible Man. New York: Vintage Books, 1947. Print.





Emma Kent and Jeff Fleshner, by Ookty Suhtar


Blossoms and love, by Sasha Jackson

Baby rose is closed before spring
Open bloom starts to ring
The smell, always good
The scent lifts my mood
Blossom makes petals shine
Long stem sounds like pine
It doesn't matter what colors they are
Love is like a spare.

 

 

Ice cream, by Sarah Peper

Your palms rest on the sun-warmed cement as you sit on the ledge of a large water fountain. You had closed your eyes and tilted your head back to soak in the warm sun, and to enjoy the soft spray of icy droplets flying from the fountain. You had stopped by at the peaceful fountain on a whim. As you were wandering the sidewalks of the town, it had caught your attention by how it sparkled and shimmered in a patch of sunlight in the midst of a shady park.

A shift in the wind draws your attention back to the gurgling fountain. You twist your torso around to look at the stream of water bubbling up. The flickering blue base of water bobs up and down, tempting you to take your sandals off, swing your legs over the ledge, and dangle your feet into its cool depths. You turn around again only when your strained neck begs you to reposition your posture. With your eyes open, and facing forward again, you start to notice other people.

You watch a couple saunter hand-in-hand down the shady sidewalk, towards the fountain, towards you. The guy whispers into the girl’s ear, and she giggles, tossing her long, perfect hair over her shoulder. You wish for a minute that you could have what they have, to be as happy and content as they are, but then you chide yourself. Give them their privacy, you think.

You see a mother and her two young boys nearby, eating a picnic lunch underneath a majestic maple tree. You hear the younger son say “Mommy, can I have licorice?”

“No, honey. How about you eat your peanut butter and jelly first?” was her reply. Then, noticing wrappers tumbling around on the lush, green grass, she says to her older son, “Kyle, would you please pick up those wrappers and drop them in that garbage can by the tree over there on your right?”

You follow her gaze to the right. Beyond the garbage can and tree, you see a group of teenagers clustered in front of the movie theatre across the street. Their laughter and banter echoes across the street and into the park where you’re sitting.

Your eyes drift back to what’s in front of you. Straight ahead, from your sunny perch on the fountain, you see the intersection of two roads that border the park. As cars carefully cruise by, drivers peer through their windows at the traffic lights, all the while keeping their eyes peeled for pedestrians. Throngs of people populate the sidewalks that lead up to the intersection, the heart of the small town. Pedestrians cross the intersections, many bearing cell phones, Starbucks drinks, or shopping bags.

You observe the people on the sidewalls: Some are jogging by, listening to music on their iPods; some are strolling past, glued to their cell phones; some are dining outside on the sidewalks, taking advantage of outdoor seating while the weather is warm. Parents are pushing strollers, friends are laughing, clusters of awkward teens are teasing each other, and shoppers are walking into and out of the abundant shops. For a few minutes you conjure up stories of who all these people are, their personalities, their stories, their backgrounds.

You snap back to reality as, out of the corner of your eye, you see a father lift his toddler daughter up onto to the fountain ledge. You hop off the ledge to let them walk around the circumference of the fountain. You see the Dad, beaming with pride, holding her hand as she starts to take baby steps. She wobbles at first, but keeps going.

You see them smiling and having a good time, and it looks like they’ll be there a while. You know that your time at the fountain ledge is up. Besides, you’ve been there for a while. You sigh. You wonder what to do next.

You decide that because it’s so hot and muggy out, you should get some ice cream. Wait, you wonder, do you have enough money? You shove your hand into your pocket and pull up some dollar bills. You have two dollars. Not much, you think, but enough for an ice cream cone.

You walk away from the fountain. You pass the mom and her two boys (who are now eating licorice). Then you start to dodge the shoppers, joggers, teens, and cell phone users on the sidewalk. You cross the intersection when the sign flashes a hand.

You turn to the right and walk towards the ice cream shop. Your ears, which had tuned out the bustle and hustle of the town while you were sitting on the fountain’s ledge, register the explosion of noise. The incessant outpouring of chatter, birds singing, shoes slapping against cement, flags whipping in the wind, the purring of car engines, and bursts of laughter through open restaurant doors all combine to overwhelm you with both the sense of community and the feeling of loneliness at the same time.

As you thread your way through sidewalk, wrapped in the stifling heat, you start to notice the shop windows. They offer tempting goods: trendy clothes, toys, sweet baked goods, candy, savory meals. Should you stop into one of them? It would be closer, and you wouldn’t have to walk so far, you think. But no, you decide. Ice cream must be the thing. It’s so hot out.

Finally, you reach the ice cream shop. It’s a brick building and small. To your dismay, it’s packed to the brim; people are spilling out from the open entrance at the side of the building. Other customers are clustered at the front of the building, impatiently waiting to buy their cold ice cream and shakes through the open windows. You take your place at the end of the line that stretches out from the side door. A few minutes pass and you are sandwiched between a group of girls and an older couple. Both groups are discussing which flavors they want. The girls want to get chocolaty flavors, and the older couple wants to share a banana split. 

When you finally reach the counter (after narrowly avoiding a collision with the girls carrying their chocolate chip ice cream cones), the cashier asks you what you want. You hesitate for a minute, but choose strawberry ice cream (single, in a cone). You plunk your dollar bills onto the counter and, as the girl gets your change and ice cream, you survey the area for a good place to eat your ice cream. It’s crowded, so you see that you have to go outside. The girl hands you your ice cream, and you say, “Thanks.” You walk out the door.

You sit down on the grass by the curb of the shop’s driveway and lick your ice cream. At first you are self-conscious about the people walking past your solitary self, but after a while you concentrate on the ice cream. You taste the creamy strawberry flavor on your dry tongue, you swallow the cool treat, and it travels down your throat, cooling you. You become lost in your ice cream for one, two, three minutes.

Finally, it’s gone. After you crunch down to the stub of your waffle cone, which has just a few trickles of melted ice cream left on the bottom, you wish that you had ordered more.You shrug the thought off, though, as you dust your hands off on your shorts. You walk back inside the shop, dart through the long line of customers, wipe your sticky fingertips off the best you can with paper towels from the dispenser on the counter, get a sip of water from the drinking fountain, and walk back out the door as fast as you can.

Once you are outside, you stop and look at your watch. What should you do now? Go back to the fountain? Wander around the streets some more? You see that you still have two hours left before you have to be home. You realize that you’re standing across the street from the public library. You remember that an event was planned there for this afternoon, and your friends might be there. So you get back on the sidewalk and stride towards the library.